Anyway, I received some e-mails from some really terrific Mom's out in cyberspace. Or so I thought... They all know what they are doing, alright! They have great spreads on their blogs; far cry from mine. The e-mails seem to be messages of welcome and hello's with stories about their children, & a little bit about themselves. Well, I thought they were emails to me, but they were links to me. I don't know much about how this networking truly operates. I thought these Mom's were writing to me about my blog. I thought, "How great is that"! Not So.... not the case, not even close. In the e-mails to me there were places to click on to; links for me to go some where else. When I clicked onto the links, I began to realize it was connecting me to a Mom's comment web site page. This was a place where Mom's, like me left their comments and opinions on stories written by other Moms... more established then I, of course. My first gut reaction was, "Wow, how do they do that, this is great stuff"! Thanks, Mom's for connecting me to yet, another some place where I have no idea what the heck I am doing. After getting over my initial excitement & mixed feelings of gosh... what am I doing; I just shook my head in amazement knowing, I know nothing much about nothing... when it comes to this cyberspace technology & trying to understanding these linking techniques, I know nothing more today then I did yesterday..... Crap !!!
You can't imagine how really silly I felt when I finally figured it all out, dah aaa.... Okay, I told you "all" out there in cyberspace I was a techno newbie with no skills. I have no techno skills technology, nor do I know what the heck I am doing, what so ever! After a short, brief chuckle with myself I decided to write a short piece about this silly blunder of mine & how it made me feel... really crazy inside, of course. So, I decided to write on what I really do know a little something about even, though it might be much about nothing. So, here are some things I do know:
I know that in the South, when it is summer, it is really hot and humid. So, really hot & humid is the weather, you better have air-conditioning or you are liable to just melt away, just like wax does off of a burning candle. It is so very hot & humid that when you go outside, your face starts to feel like it is melting off, perspiration, like water runs from your forehead down. You become this one huge giant drip of wetness & it feels so uncomfortable. Owe... I'm melting....
I know that Meter Maids or (persons) come around way to often, checking the meters, marking your rear tires with white chalk, and writing out tickets which they politely display on your front wind shield for all the towns folks to see. It can get costly, just ask my daughter, who has a collection of them in her glove compartment of her car! Watch out Sweetie, or they'll boot ya...the next time.
I know that fast moving cars do want to run you down when you are in the cross walk zone... So, walk quickly, those cars are in a hurry and want you to move out of there way or they'll run you down if necessary. They are in a hurry to get to the next red light.
I know I am alive and still kicking & that's a good thing, with a lot of techno...technology to learn. Lots & lots... to learn, and I'm ready! Bring it on!! Yeah...boy! Thank God, I know how to move the mouse.
I know what really matters the most to me are my two kids, who I love dearly, and I know in their strange & bizarre way they love me, too; and, I am thankful everyday for this concrete fact. Even if my son, has a funny way of showing it. He forgets birthdays, cards, yet he calls. He also forgets the gifts....but he remembers to show up, he has a great appetite. My daughter is such a lady, she remembers everything, except what pertains directly to her. She always remembers the birthday cards, flowers, & gives great gifts; my son could learn a lot from his sister. My daughter keeps reminding me when we are all out together that my son keeps an open bar tab; take advantage of it Mom... I will, thanks sweetie, next time! Good stuff to remember. I could use a drink right about now.
I know families matter, no matter how dysfunctional. Families are the corner stone of life. They are the bonds that hold us together & support us through tough times. This is so important to our well being. Sometimes, families can be a lot of work and trouble & sometimes they hurt & are a real royal pain in the _____ but, even so, families matter. I love hanging with all the misfits in families, they are the most fun to be around. They know how to have a good time, most of the time & are the most entertaining. There never seems to be a dull moment with them, always full of surprises; & some, do the most outrageous things. These are what stories and memorable moments are made of at family gatherings. Like the time when Aunt Sophie got mad at Uncle Frankie at dinner & she turned a bowl of spaghetti over his head!! Spaghetti went everywhere. Now, that was funny.... I miss moments like that! I love to attend family reunions because of all those colorful characters.
I know to try to remain calm at all costs. It is imperative, when life throws you a curve and turns everything in your world upside down & chaos reins. Then, it seems like everything else turns to mush. It's only a matter of time when it will be your turn to be a winner again... You may even win the lottery, which will turn your chaotic life right side up again. Of course, you need to be playing to win; "there goes my last dollar"!
And, last but not least... I know the greatest gift in life... is life itself & yes, it is well worth living to your fullest potential! You never know when you're going to have a second shot at it, so enjoy the time & moments shared with family, friends, loved ones, co-workers, & techno newbies like me. Enjoy watching your children grow, your grandchildren, if you have some & treasure the moments with them, they are rare & hold special memories. Laugh a lot... laugh aloud, a lot, when ever possible. Screw things up when you can, this way when you finally get it right you'll feel great! Love being you, you are all you've got & you are worth it! Who knows when another you will come along. Not likely. If you have a problem with this... then reinvent yourself! Who cares who does or doesn't like you, "you like you" ! This is important, you count for something..."well don't you"? The answer to this question is a given....the answer is Yes! I'm lost in the shuffle and it's a public's view....